Grateful member of Al-Anon and listener. Wanted to thank you for you episode on spending time trying to figure it out. I definitely relate, in fact at this point it feels like an integral part of each step for me is at some point realizing that I don't need to figure it out, but gosh darn it if I don't try again when I get to the next step. This is slowly changing as my recovery develops and it is so helpful to get reminders.
So grateful for your podcast - it helps me tremendously both in my own recovery and in understanding my alcoholic loved ones.